Uhmm… A question to ask you…
… Just because your bank account has got your name on it, is your bank account you?
What do I mean?
Well, I see so many people (and for many years I was one of them by the way), who get negatively affected by the amount of money in their bank account as if somehow the amount of money in their bank account equates to who they are, their value in the world, and their sense of self-worth, and it impacts some people very very negatively indeed.
Well, I’m here to tell you that after very many years of studying this stuff and realising where I was going wrong, and how I was sabotaging my own levels of happiness, I got a handle on the fact that how much money you’ve got the bank is not you, it’s not an indicator of when you’re a good person a bad person, a worthwhile, worthy person or a worthless person (and none of us is worthless by the way), it’s just a medium of exchange to get you what you want in this physical world, and our attachment to (it in my humble opinion), is far too great.
You see all of the things of real value in this world are not man-made such as money, they are in fact things like your children, your grandchildren, your spouse, your parents etc etc…
… The love you share and the memories that you have, the good times, the happy times you have together, relationships….
… People that’s what I’m talking about…
… All of the stuff that you cannot put a price tag on, that you cannot buy in the shop, and that no amount of money will buy for you, that is a true indicator of who we really are.
Look around you now at the things that you have in terms of your family and the people that love you, think of the things that you can celebrate from the memories that you’ve got that are really special that will warm your heart…
Newborn children, the day you got married, the day your children were born, the day your grandchildren were born, all of these things are special to me and you’ll have your own, but what I’m trying to get to, is the fact that all of the most special things are the ones you can’t buy, and they are also the truest indicator of your true worth and your value in the world, and not just to the people who are close to you but to the others in the world, because we’re all connected it all radiates out, but that’s another video for another time.
But if you’re feeling a little bit like you know maybe your life’s not adding up to what you anticipated in the past, and most of that thinking is coming from your logical thought processes, are based in the physical world, and are being affected by comparisons with others, which is a surefire recipe for disaster in terms of how you think about yourself (and feel about yourself, more importantly), I’m here to tell you that that’s got nothing to do with you as a great person, we all like greatness in us and the only thing that stops you from realising that and tapping into an unlimited fountain of happiness (and it really is), and happiness that doesn’t come and go but is there all of the time, is just to disconnect from all that physical stuff, all of that kind of as we call it ‘real world’ attachment and learn to look at the stuff that money can’t buy and feel gratitude for all of that stuff.
See the relationships you’ve got with those that love you, feel the love from them because that love is a true indicator of who you really are as a person.
It’s really not possible to be loved unless you’re capable of loving…
… You have to plant the seed to get the crop eventually and that’s the same in every area of life, so I don’t know where you are in life right now, you might have five bucks in the bank, you might have 5 million in the bank, you might have more, you might have nothing, you might be homeless, this still not an indicator of your true worth as a person and remember, all of these states no matter which one applies to you, all of these states are an illusion, they’re all temporary anyway.
Eventually, we’re all going to leave this earthly plane and we’re gonna move back into our spiritual state and will be disassociated from all this stuff.
And that’s when you’re reconnected with your true source and when you are completely happy all of the time without any effort on your part at all, and the only real difference is that you have disassociated yourself from all of the nonsense, and the logical thought processes that go on in your head when you’re on this spiritual plane (sorry, I mean the physical plane)… Let’s get it right LOL!
So again to wrap up, I’ve been going on a bit longer cos I’m a passionate about this stuff…
… Just look around every day, every morning when you get up, just look around what you’ve got, the people that love you. Look at the look in their eyes when they look at you and feel grateful for everything you’ve got, don’t focus on what you don’t have, focus on what you’ve got and as a result of being grateful and in a state of happiness, I promise you, the door to much bigger and better things will come along in the future.
But the minute you’re disgruntled and unhappy and frustrated not only of yourself up to a level of happiness that is unnecessary and painful, but you also close the door of opportunity and stop anything good coming your way.
So that’s it… I’ve had a little waffle but it’s getting cold now… It looks nice but it’s getting a bit colder, I’m going to wrap up now.
If you’re an entrepreneur who’s really really looking to step up your game on a psychological level, and you really want to get into the personal development side of things, address your mindset, and really have that kind of unstoppable mindset and attitude towards life, that kind of ability to do whatever it takes and not feel fear when you do, then register for my free training (below) and we’ll get into much more depth about all things personal development and all things on the subconscious reprogramming level, and all good stuff like that.
Anything is possible when you have the tools, and you have the will and determination to apply what you learn…
… Anything is possible… That’s it from me, over and out for now 🙂