You know what?…
It really amazes me how it seems to be kinda like the human condition to forget who we really are, who we instinctively knew we were when we were really young children, before this physical life, this physical experience that we’ve created around us, has actually forged a character and an outlook on life, that we weren’t born into this reality with.
But what happens as we go along is we forget who we are, we forget our purpose, we forget the reason why we were born into this existence right at the outset, and I truly believe (and I’ve seen much evidence to support the fact), that we are all here for a very, very distinct and important purpose, each and every one of us.
The sad thing is, that most of us never find out what that purpose is, and so we go through life constantly feeling like we are less than we can be, constantly feeling feelings of frustration, feelings of loss, feeling a kind of lack of direction and not knowing where to go…
… Feeling kind of unhappy as a result of all of that.
And it’s my objective (through my work), to get you on the right path to finding out what your purpose really is, and to clarifying and creating your ideal life.
And I’m not talking about what you’d like for everybody else, I’m talking about what you’d like for YOU. Because again as we travel through life and we maybe get married, and we have children, we have (in my case) grandchildren (and plenty of them), we start to think of everything in terms of what we’d like the people we love, to have.
But what that really creates as well is a disconnect with who you are, and what you really want.
I remember having a conversation with my father once, and I suggested to him that if I was to ask him the question…
What do you want for you?
That he wouldn’t be able to answer it, and sure enough, he said… “Do you know what?… If I can’t think about your Mum and if I can’t think you kids and what I would like for you, then I really couldn’t tell what I want for myself. I’ve been married for a long time now, and from the moment I got married I lost sight of what I wanted because I became less important”.
And do you know what?…
As a parent and as a husband, I understand that stuff… I understand that completely.
And I understand how important it is to be fully committed to your relationships as a husband, as a wife, as a parent… Of course, it is…
And of course, that’s going to be very important to you as it should be.
But you know what?…
You mustn’t allow it to stop you from being as attentive to your own wants, needs, and desires, as you are to other people’s requirements.
Because what it will lead to over a period of time if you continue to do that stuff, is an erosion of your self-value, self-worth, your self-esteem, everything that makes you feel like a winner, helps you become above average and go out there and create above average results for yourself and your family… The people that you love!
So here’s what I’m saying essentially…
By giving to yourself first, you actually have more to give to others later. The people that you really love the most.
If you actually do it the other way around, then those very people I’ve just mentioned are going to suffer, everybody suffers… YOU suffer!
It’s just not a good thing to do, and it’s not a great way to approach your life.
By ignoring your wants, needs, and desires, you’re actually making yourself less able to create for other people.
You see, here’s the thing…
You are absolutely unique in this beautiful world, and you’ve got an essential part to play in its evolution and its growth.
And it’s the same for each and every one of us.
Each and every one of us has a unique and valuable gift to share with the world. But unfortunately, most of us don’t actually get to find out what that is before we leave this earthly plane and move back into spirit. And look, I don’t want that to be you, and not just because it will be depriving the world of your specialness, but because it will also deprive you of living your bliss.
So my question for you today is this…
Who are YOU… Really, who are YOU?
And what is your purpose in life?
Don’t overthink it, just take these questions into the silence through meditation and the answers will show up when you are truly ready to ready to receive and accept them.
Let me know how you get on 🙂
– Robert